Sunday, November 27, 2016

11202016 Leading with Faith

Well this week wasn't super exciting. Bad news, our recent convert feels like his daughter isn't prepared to get baptized (which lest be honest, who really is at American age 8?) So she probably won't get baptized soon. The son will however! :) Also our other investigator with a baptismal date has gotten very busy so we haven't been able to meet the past couple of weeks... So that is really too bad. But we will hopefully meet with him this week!
Now the good news. I think I had the most miraculous lesson I have ever had this week. It was with BakTaeSon And his wife was sick so it was just him. We talked about the Gospel of Jesus Christ. He had read Alma 32 like 4 times to make sure he understood if for our second meeting, and always is good and asking questions and is starting to feel like our church is different from other churches. So we had assigned him to read the Pamphlet about the gospel of Jesus Christ. He had and so we just asked him question about his understanding of it. He explained faith well (far better than I could in Korean) and then we asked him how it is related to repentance. He nailed it again. Explained how if we believe in Christ and want to become like him we must strive to change! He explained how one of his frustrations with churches is that they "repent" every Sunday but then got back and do the same thing over again, and how that is not repentance! You get the idea. He taught the entire lesson. So then I just asked him, how is your "seed of faith" doing? He said "I think spring is coming. A warm wind is blowing." So I asked him about church and he said basically that a change will take time but he was wondering if we had a church party or something that he could start with and get to know the people. I was just amazed that whole lesson. He was just real and open to faith! That is so impressive to me! 
Anyway, things are going well in Gimpo! there has been some real interesting drama with the sisters so prayers on their behalf will be appreciated! 
I have started reading the Book of Mormon with a question as Elder Bednar does and it has been good! Nephi is such a great example of obedience despite a lack of understanding. He always leads with his faith. I know God has blessed me. I know the commandments of God can be fulfilled. etc. I do now know all things. I do not know how I can do it. etc. Nevertheless I will move forward. I will try. etc. I think as I read the Scriptures that that pattern will become clear! Start with faith, acknowledge your limitations, lack of knowledge, and doubts, and move forward! Starting with faith seems to be centered on reading the words of God and praying to him! It has been good just seeing these patterns and just focusing in on them!
The Gospel is True and it is amazing! :)
Hurrah for Israel!

Monday, November 7, 2016

11272016 Gimpo

I couldn't think of a good title so Gimpo is all I got! This week was good. Sadly one of our investigators who had a baptismal goal has been busy and then had a little car accident so is in the hospital! So he said he won't be able to meet for a little while more! Which brings me to a fun fact about Korea culture. They go to the hospital for everything!! So also our recent convert's daughter got sick, and so they went to the hospital on Sunday and didn't come to church or the fireside.
We made a family home evening thing so that some of our investigators could meet members. None of them ended up being able to come, so our sisters were super stressed but we ended up getting two high school students to come. They are both a little weird but they seemed to really enjoy the games and stuff!
I don't remember what I said last week, but my focus is on become consecrated. I have really enjoyed this week. Focusing on always being effective. I think I was more bold talking to people, and pushed my district and companion a little more. I feel sad when I see people not living up to there potential! 
Perhaps one of the things I have realized the most these past few transfers is that relationships really are complicated. Without people's trust or respect you cannot ask them to change.
Anyway best story for the week. I will tell it from my companions perspective first. "I was sitting behind elder Sabey and a young guy in TaeQuonDo cloths sat by him. He started talking to him and asked how old he was.He said 19. So elder Sabey asked how old he thought I was. He said 28. Well we are actually the same age. So he thought that was cool. He was pretty good at English, so I said 'your handsome!' to which he replied 'I'm a girl...' 'Oh... you look... good..." Anyway this girl with a guys hair cut sat by me. We normally don't talk to the other gender but we made eye contact and I felt awkward not talking so I did... Then the whole age thing happened. I realized my companion thought she was a guy (I don't know how he missed the high voice thing...) so I was typing in my phone "girl" to show him, but when I got to the r it was too late he had called her handsome. Anyway, I gave her an English pamphlet and she texted us! So that was a funny experience this week!
Anyway, I truly believe that when we lose our life for the gospels sake we save it! Happy thanksgiving! We didn't do anything special except wish each other happy thanksgiving! There is so much to be thankful for! I am thankful to be in Korea, to be on a mission, to be born into a wonderful family, to have lived in America, to live in the modern times, to be in the church, for Christ, for Elder Holland :), for a Prophet, etc. Life is good!
Hurrah for Israel!
--
Elder Sabey

10312016 Cometh through much Fasting and Prayer

This week was good! There were several fun/stressful/interesting experiences this week.
The first and maybe most stressful is as follows:   A person texted us and said “I think I can meet tomorrow.”   I looked at the name couldn't remember who it was, so I looked in some of the records where I thought I recognized the name from and found a guy who had a lot of potential and wants to learn but just never had time. So, I texted back and said of course! Come time for the appointment, a lady comes to the church. . . that was already super stressful, since we aren't allowed to meet with sisters alone.   I quickly texted the sisters and asked them to come to the church.  My companion, the lady and I just talked while we waited for the sisters. When the sisters came to the door they saw who it was and didn't come in. They texted me and asked who it was. At this point in time I realized it was a lady I had called that the sisters had met before who was a really strong Jehovah's witness. And they did not have a good experience with her.  The sisters thought I was trying to go behind their back or something. I wasn't: the names are just almost exactly the same as our other old investigator.  So an awkward talk with this lady and the sisters ended. And I had to explain everything to the sisters. It all turned out okay, but a funny and stressful experience. 

The next is we met this guy from England. He believes in astrotheology.  Basically science with a slight tie to religion.  So we talked on the street for like 20 minutes and met yesterday. His understanding of truth is very close to ours. It is amazing. But sad because I don't think he has much potential to change his opinion. He believes we are intelligences that have enough power to impact the matter around us, so if we search for an answer we could likely hear a voice or whatever confirming our question... But it reaffirmed to me that our church truly fits with science and that God truly gives to all who are searching just in the way they need it at the time!

The best moment of the week however was during personal study. I have been trying to have a question going into personal study every day. Then I often just keep reading where I am and try to find an answer. This one day my question is how do I rely on Christ? I know I need to, but in moments from day to day and stuff I don't know how to do it. So I was reading in Matthew and I read where Christ heals the lunatic and says this comes not our through prayer and fasting.  I guess I didn't find anything really related to what I was saying but then my mind just clicked (#inspiration) and I realized this is what God wants me to do. So many of my short comings come not out but through fasting and prayer. So that is what I am focusing on :) It was a great confirmation to me that God is real, and does give small but powerful pushes.

All of our investigators didn't keep their commitments but are still slowly progressing I believe. And a cool miracle--a guy I talked to on the street wanted to learn English, but went to Australia. He got back, called me and came to English. Then at English he asked when Church was and came to that as well! So although he isn't an investigator he came to church which was awesome!   :)
Hurrah for Israel!
-- 

Elder Sabey

10312016 Cometh through much Fasting and Prayer

This week was good! There were several fun/stressful/interesting experiences this week.
The first and maybe most stressful is as follows:   A person texted us and said “I think I can meet tomorrow.”   I looked at the name couldn't remember who it was, so I looked in some of the records where I thought I recognized the name from and found a guy who had a lot of potential and wants to learn but just never had time. So, I texted back and said of course! Come time for the appointment, a lady comes to the church. . . that was already super stressful, since we aren't allowed to meet with sisters alone.   I quickly texted the sisters and asked them to come to the church.  My companion, the lady and I just talked while we waited for the sisters. When the sisters came to the door they saw who it was and didn't come in. They texted me and asked who it was. At this point in time I realized it was a lady I had called that the sisters had met before who was a really strong Jehovah's witness. And they did not have a good experience with her.  The sisters thought I was trying to go behind their back or something. I wasn't: the names are just almost exactly the same as our other old investigator.  So an awkward talk with this lady and the sisters ended. And I had to explain everything to the sisters. It all turned out okay, but a funny and stressful experience. 

The next is we met this guy from England. He believes in astrotheology.  Basically science with a slight tie to religion.  So we talked on the street for like 20 minutes and met yesterday. His understanding of truth is very close to ours. It is amazing. But sad because I don't think he has much potential to change his opinion. He believes we are intelligences that have enough power to impact the matter around us, so if we search for an answer we could likely hear a voice or whatever confirming our question... But it reaffirmed to me that our church truly fits with science and that God truly gives to all who are searching just in the way they need it at the time!

The best moment of the week however was during personal study. I have been trying to have a question going into personal study every day. Then I often just keep reading where I am and try to find an answer. This one day my question is how do I rely on Christ? I know I need to, but in moments from day to day and stuff I don't know how to do it. So I was reading in Matthew and I read where Christ heals the lunatic and says this comes not our through prayer and fasting.  I guess I didn't find anything really related to what I was saying but then my mind just clicked (#inspiration) and I realized this is what God wants me to do. So many of my short comings come not out but through fasting and prayer. So that is what I am focusing on :) It was a great confirmation to me that God is real, and does give small but powerful pushes.

All of our investigators didn't keep their commitments but are still slowly progressing I believe. And a cool miracle--a guy I talked to on the street wanted to learn English, but went to Australia. He got back, called me and came to English. Then at English he asked when Church was and came to that as well! So although he isn't an investigator he came to church which was awesome!   :)
Hurrah for Israel!
-- 

Elder Sabey

11072016 Amazing Saturday

This week was good! Since our mission president is going to Japan this week for a mission president meeting, this week was really busy with meeting.  Zone training on Wednesday, a follow up meeting for all the new missionaries on Tuesday, a Thursday p-day, and exchanges on Monday. Sorry that was not at all in order... but you get the idea. So lots of riding buses and subways! There were all good meetings! I am making some good changes! Another cool change is that our president made it a rule to sing hymns in the shower. So that is interesting and good!!

On Tuesday, we met with the couple that is doing the English program. They read Alma 32. And just asked good questions. So we talked about how we want them to know for themselves. And asked if they want to see if our seed has fruits. They said it would probably take time but that they are willing to plant the seed if you will.  That was great. Then on Saturday we had a meeting with the guy who came to church last week. He is super nice guy probably in his 60s. He said our church feels very family oriented and that we are very different from other Korean churches. We taught the restoration, and said we wanted him to get an answer himself. We set a goal for a baptismal date for Christmas eve. He asked if he could get an answer that fast and we said yes so he is moving forward with that goal. He also brought a Book of Mormon he received from a missionary 10 years ago.  He too will read Alma 32 and will hopefully make some good progress. We asked the recent convert if his son would be interested in learning about our church. He had us ask him. So we did and he said yes. When they came, the son and daughter came!  We are reviewing the lessons with the father while teaching the children. It is great. The son, is the cutest kid ever. He didn't used to believe in God, but he said he now does. When he first came to church, during the sacrament he felt a sudden peace, so he now believes in God. Both kids said they want to get baptized so we set another baptism goal for them on December 10th.  It was just an amazing Saturday!

Sunday was stake conference and we met one potential investigator and his sister, and introduced our English program and gave them a book of Mormon. Miracles are happening! :)

Spiritual thought for the week- I have been reading Matthew and just finished. Reading the gospels, you would have a really hard time understanding Christ's atonement and really his whole purpose. That comes through apostles, and prophets explaining and expounding. I  the rest of the new testament, old testament,  in the book of Mormon and from modern prophets and apostles. So just we are so blessed to have people still teaching and expounding upon the live and words of Christ!!

-- 
Elder Sabey


Wednesday, October 26, 2016

10232016 Elder Bednar Didn't Disappoint




Well as expected Elder Bednar did pretty well... haha
It was great. It was fun to see some friends from the MTC. Then it was great to have Elder Bednar talk to us. He is fun, funny, and very smart. But most importantly just very good. His theme was that we need to be agents not objects. Agents in learning. And we need to make our investigators agents in the learning process too. He didn't prepare much of a talk, but was mostly asking questions. What did we learn from the talks we were supposed to read? Then he would ask follow up questions. How are we applying this? What impacts does that have in missionary work? etc. Then just a question answer session. Then several times he asked what we are learning from the whole process he chose to use about the learning process? Anyway, super good! I realize how often I am an object. Just following rules because I have to. Or just reading scriptures, without a purpose, or just falling into habit. All of these things make us objects. By conscously choosing to study with a purpose, ask questions, or just more mindfully choosing actions makes us agents in this life. 

Well we had a really good lesson with Guon Oh June the night of the meeting with Elder Bednar. We talked about Alma 32. I tried to follow Elder Bednars style and ask questions. So we talked about Alma 32 and talked about his faith being the seed. We then asked why he didn't want to pray, and brought it back around to the seed growing. So it ended and he said he would pray to end our lesson! That was a cool experience! We also are starting the English program with a couple so they are two new investigators this week. 

My companion is a very energetic and talkative guy. It is fun to be around! he did some drama, and band, and fun things like that! 

Fun thing. We have been listening to elder Hollands talks just from when he was first an apostle till 2002 right now. He is just amazing!

So my thought for the day is that we are not our own. The Sabbath is not our day (that is one of the things Bednar said to us, and to all of Korea- he actually warned the church in Korea there will be consequences if they do not keep the Sabbath day holy...) 
The more we get over our selves, stop looking at things from a selfish perspective, the happier and better life we can live!
Hurrah for Israel!
--
Elder Sabey

10162016 Another new companion


My new companion is Elder Dalley. He is from Utah and a fun kid. We have been together for like 2 days so I don't know a whole bunch yet. 

This week was pretty busy. We had just normal interviews with president, plus two other times having to go meet with president for the new companion situation and everything, exchanges and district meeting. So a lot of traveling. So I didn't spend a whole lot of time in our area. One of our investigators said he doesn't have time to meet, so we really only have 1 investigator at this time. We are making lots of calls to old investigators, potential investigators, and then just doing lots of proselyting. Fun stuff!

This week we get to meet with Elder Bednar! Great birthday present right? I am actually expecting him to bring me a birthday present, I am not sure why else he would pick the 19th to come talk to us. haha.

I don't have to much to say this week sorry. I know God lives. I see him in the people he has given me as companions, in people we meet on the streets, and in so many small details in my life. I am so thankful for a God that gives me agency and assures me through the storms of life. What a wonderful God. What a wonderful earth to live on!
Hurrah for Israel!
--
Elder Sabey

10092016 Finding the Identity as a Servant of God




This week was a good week! We met with an older guy who  mainly has English interest, but knows a fair amount about churches and stuff. So he likes talking and is open to what we have to say. He said something interesting. We invited him to read and pray about the book of Mormon. He said no. I will study it and see how I feel about it. But until I feel its goodness in my heart, I will not pray about it. I didn't really know what to say. I just said let's start with reading.

We had zone training and our zone leader really wants to make a lot of changes. I really appreciate people like he is, who just take the lead. It isn't my style but I really appreciate him. Plus as a Korean I hope he can help our sisters a little bit! I asked my companion what he learned from Zone training and he said, "Well I feel like it confirmed that we are doing things right." That felt good to hear. 

I loved conference! I always enjoy it but feel I get a lot more after when I read the talks, so I look forward to getting the talks and reading them. 

My spiritual thought is that when we worry about what others think, or about less important things instead of what God thinks, that is when we make mistakes. Missionaries that don't speak their language because they will sound stupid, or that won't talk to lots of people because its awkward or they could get mad... etc. When we stop comparing and worrying about what others think, we can happily do the will of God. Not to mention people that do have the ability to look stupid while being confident are way more studly and attractive. I think when your identity is as a servant of God, the rest of the world falls in place and life becomes happy. Happy despite sounding stupid, or people getting mad, or whatever it is. So I am again so grateful for this gospel! 

Also I either jammed my thumb pretty bad or broke it... so that is annoying.

Also happy  birthday David! I have some good memories of David! I remember when David chose not to play soccer and said "I love soccer too much to have a coach ruin it for me." That was an awesome explanation! Also I remember when David was Captain VonTrap and in singers. How he was loved by so many people like Jesse Millar and Bret Ludwig. He is just good with people. Also I remember  him biking Slick Rock and just being a man. I love you David!
--
Elder Sabey

10032016 New Companion from Highlands Ranch


My companion is indeed the one from Littleton Colorado! My prayers were answered! haha. Well actually more of Highlands Ranch/Rocksborough area. He went to Thunderridge High school. I feel like in a lot of ways we are similar. More relaxed but both have a drive to be obedient and diligent. So I am super excited for the next two transfers. His name is Zachary Burridge. 

This week we had transfers, then the next day district meeting. I talked about some experiences with people living beneath there "privileges" and then talked about how we as missionaries live beneath our privileges. I committed them to write what they do to live beneath their privileges and then what the missionary "cruze buffet" (from elder Uchdorf's talk) looks like. Baptisms, the holy ghost, etc. So I am excited to see what people say.

After we became companions we had several people call us: a less active, an old investigator, and one of our investigator. It was cool just to feel like God was blessing us.

We have been thinking a lot about effective finding. We have to focus a fair amount on that as a district right now, so I am interested in your thoughts on effective finding? How did you find?
Right now we are just doing a variety! I am enjoying changing things up a lot. There was a cool idea I learned from a girl who served in New York. They would do a word of wisdom challenge thing where they have them spin a wheel and get a challendge like not drink alcohol for a week, or coffee, etc. Then we get there phone number and follow up on there challenge. And of course give a word of wisdom pamphlet. I think it could be fun. Make what we are teaching more fun and challenging so they might want to do it. So I made that wheel thing and want to try it some time soon!

I am happy and life is good. I love the idea of the Character of Christ is turning outward. I more I think about my reasons for wanting power or accomplishments or whatever, the more I realized I am selfish. The more I force my self to turn outward, the happier and the more meaningful life becomes! Christ was perfect at this, and I see church members do the same!

Hurrah for Israel!

--
Elder Sabey

09262016 Normal Things as a Missionary in Korea



Well I am staying in Gimpo and I will be training (just like everybody else.) We have 18 new missionaries coming in and 18 next transfer so everybody has to train (maybe even zone leaders). There is once kid coming in from Littleton Colorado, so I am praying I will get him... haha. I decided to base this email on Mom's questions to me this week.


What do you eat- Normally we don't have a lot of money, so we eat cheap. There is 5 dollar pizza, rice burgers(rice patties with different Korean foods in the middle), 



a toast place, we make some stews and raman at home, then some other cheap korean foods, and whatever we get from members! 

How you catch a bus or train- there is a bus stop with a bunch of buses at the main street by our house so we go there and then you just wave at the bus that you want to ride and it will stop and you get on and swipe your card.


 The subway is normally really easy, but we don't have one in our area, so we take a bus for 30 minutes to the nearest station and then you just swipe your card and get on. It is pretty simple. And you transfer from bus to bus and train to train for free so it is nice.
Where do you go- When we met with people we almost always meet at the church. When we go out to proselyte we normally do it around our church/ home. But if we go to visit members or less actives and stuff we go all over the place by bus.
What do you do (tracking?  Street contacting?)- We mainly street contact. In Korea there almost every door has an electronic door bell with a camera. So you ring and then they look at a camera to see who it is and then can choose to talk to us through the camera or just ignore us.




 So basically it is way too easy to not even talk to us, so tracking is pretty ineffective.

How's your district?  My district is doing alright. There have definitely been some struggles. The sisters in my ward had a mid transfer transfer this week, so we have 2 Korean sisters now. The sister Training leaders are great, but have like no investigators, and one of the other elders goes home and is ready to go home. But things are looking up! 

What are your responsibilities as the DL? I just get stats, do district meeting most weeks, and that is about it. I just try to stay in touch with everybody and help in whatever small way I can.

 Is your mission changing much with the new mission president? Not really. Transfers have been crazy but that is mainly because the amount of people coming it. He pretty much said he hasn't changed anything rule wise. He has a different feel that the last president, but for most things it is all the same.

This week there wasn't too much exciting stuff to report. I am excited for transfers. I say this maybe pridefully, but I am excited to get a missionary untainted by other companions in an area with less contact with other missionaries. I want to mold an awesome missionary :) haha I will need your prayers (for my pride and my training...)
I love you all!
-- 
Elder Sabey

09192016 Choose to Endure or to Enjoy


This week was mission tour! It was different than last one for sure. Oh and awesome news, although Elder Holland didn't come to mission tour like I wanted, Elder Bednar is coming a month from today, and we are doing a combined mission conference with the Seoul mission. So that is super exciting! :) President Whiting talked a lot about companionships and seeking the spirit in our work. So some cool things that were said. President Whiting said we can choose to endure our mission or our companion, or we can choose to enjoy them. Sister Whiting said if we change our attitude from our missions being a sacrifice to them being our offering it can change our perspective. (I do think those words are very similar but do have different feelings.) One scripture I have been thinking about a lot this week is Mosiah 2:21-22 (I think). If we serve God with all of our souls we are still unprofitable servants. And all he asks us to do is to keep his commandments. So changing it to an offering of gratitude I think is a good change! :) I don't remember exactly how he said it, but he acknowledged how we can feel somewhat useless but said isn't at least a part of God's purpose of missions, you. I think knowing that is important. Even if we don't make much of a difference here, through obedience and submission to God I am fulfilling his purpose!
So it was a fun week. Because is is Korean Thanksgiving, we had a special p-day were we could not do studies and go to a cultural thing, so we went to a traditional Korean village museum thing. We then had Mission Tour the next day. So we slept at other some other elders house that night.
I really do love other missionaries. I think I am going to room with Elder Yates when he gets home from his mission. I talked with an awesome elder, Elder Andrew, and just really appreciated his attitude and personality. His companion is from the Philippines and didn't have an easy life and I think it is hard because he is getting better at English while learning another language. I just respect so many people here.
Not too much exciting things happened on the teaching front this week. We got a new investigator who is doing the English program, and it seems like he mainly has English interest.
I kind of already shared my spiritual thought. But we really are unprofitable servants. God is more than merciful to us. That is so good to know!
Hurrah for Israel!
--
Elder Sabey

Tuesday, September 13, 2016

09122016 This Week is the Korean Thanksgiving

This week was again fast. It was weird last night having to make calls again to get stats and stuff. Anyway, this week we had zone training meeting followed by exchanges with the zone leaders. It was really good for both me and my companion I think. It really had little to do with what they taught or anything, but I just thought again about obedience. So I made a list of things that I notice people often do that are not obedient. I read them to my companion and I want to read them to my district. We will hopefully become a more obedient companionship and district. It was a good day or two that I felt guided by the spirit.
In the zone leaders area there is an English branch, and we had a lesson with a family there. He teaches at the University of Utah Asia campus, and one of his students asked questions about his beliefs. Anyway, member missionary work is amazing. When members are willing to talk to friends and people about there belief, without feeling embarrassed it just opens so many opportunities. So keep doing member missionary work!
We also met with a man who is a new father so hasn't been able to meet for a while. His wife doesn't like him meeting with us but he says "I don't care, because I know you guys are all nice." haha. Anyway super nice guy with mainly English interest, but still I see potential there, so pray for him. His name is Song Young June.
And we are meeting with a new investigator today! Yay.
This week is Korean thanksgiving, so we have a special P-day where we are encouraged to do a cultural activity and then we also have our mission tour, where President Whiting will come talk to us again. (I wanted Elder Holland :( haha) 
My spiritual thought is just that I love the leaders of our church. I read Elder Bednars talk on why the church has old people guiding it and a while ago I heard a talk by elder Holland when he says that there are no people who he has met who are more in touch with the problems of todays society than the leadership of our church. Anyway, I guess I agreed with both of them so much and felt love for the apostles and prophets in our church. They are amazing men of faith and understanding. 
Hurrah for Israel!
--
Elder Sabey

Tuesday, September 6, 2016

09052016 Slow beginnings and new attitude (And Happy Birthday Danielle)

This week was again fast! And again I am not entirely sure why. This was perhaps one of the worst weeks in regards to stats. Everybody cancelled :( So that is annoying. I am used to being in Seoul and here in Gimpo there are still people but it just feels that there are a lot less. Everything is more spread out, and without bikes we can either walk and not go far at all or ride a bus. I feel like the past few weeks I have been trying to figure out how to proselyte effectively and was a little frustrated with not feeling effective. Actually this morning during my prayer after personal study my attitude changed a little bit. I just thanked God for the opportunity to learn a new style of missionary work in a new area. I don't expect my frustrations or even stats to change all that quickly but I think it was a good start to changing my attitude which is all too often prideful and selfish.
A rose was I think our sisters are doing a lot better! They both seem happier and that is awesome :)
Also I somehow misplaced or had 20$ get stolen.

Also Happy Birthday Danielle!!! I am so happy you are a part of my family :) Some memories of Danielle are as follows. First, I remember when she said I was her favorite brother in law... (I am pretty sure that one happened.) Second, I remember visiting them in Boston and just hanging out and talking while we waited for the graduation ceremony to start. I just felt like Danielle was so fun and easy to talk with. Next I remember just Danielle's laugh. It is so uplifting and contagious. Last but not least I just remember David saying some things he loves about you and his experience dating you. You are kind, easy to talk to, smart, confident, etc. So you are pretty awesome basically.

My spiritual thought comes from 2 conferences ago. I read two talks both of which were about commandments. The first told the story of the surfers wanting to go past the barrier, but came to find out that there were sharks feeding on the other side of the barrier. The other talked about a grandma trying to have her grandchild keep her seat belt on. In the end, explaining the "commandment" helped the child want to keep it. So my thought is that we must first show faith in keeping commandments. Normally then we come to know why we were asked to keep them. However, I also think trying to figure out why we were given commandments is really important. So to me faith is a combination of 2 things. Just trusting and then searching for answers. That combination will eventually bring answers.
Hurrah for Israel
Hurrah for commandments!

-- 

Elder Sabey

Monday, August 29, 2016

08292016 Companion, Stake conference and Joy

This week felt super fast. I don't know why. Thinking back, it didn't feel like we did very much. Most all of our potential investigators and people haven't been answering calls or texts and appointments have been canceled. We met with two older men who mainly just have English interest.
The sister missionaries in our ward are both having a bit of a hard time, so their relationship isn't great. One isn't super obedient I guess and one is a brand new missionary. So we made a transfer plan for our ward with some things I assigned them each to do and want to do some more proselyting together.  Our plan is in different areas, like getting a better relationship with the ward, so we are writing a note to each family, maybe starting a missionary activity once a month where they can invite their friends. Less actives, I asked for a list of ones they want to focus on. Then we will decide how to focus. English class, I asked the Americans to come up with homework we can give our students and stuff.   We play basketball once a week. That is where the others met the recent convert. So we play with him, his son, and their friends and whoever else comes.

We had stake conference. Elder Gang of the presidency of the seventy came. The most memorable part of his talk was the part focused on the children. He talked about penguins. And he said each time the sound the made when the walk. That was funny, but the funniest part was that the translator than had to try to make the sound each time he was translating. Everybody laughed. He maybe was a little embarrassed but kept focused and translated well. The moral of the story was that they all jump into the water together to avoid getting eaten by leopard seals. So we as members, if we are united as families, wards and stakes we can avoid the dangers of this world. Good message but also funny.
A little about my companion. He is a violin major, so he is super good. He has a crazy nice violin and case and everything. He is super fun. I am enjoying being with him. He is actually technically an American and a Korean, but doesn't speak English very well.  We usually speak Korean.

My spiritual thought this week is that losing yourself is really what is needed for joy. I think of different missionaries I know or people in life I know or have heard about, and when they feel like the church or missionary work or whatever it is doesn't fulfill their needs, they always become unhappy because they are focused on themselves. But when we just accept the need for obedience, for commandments and submit our will to God, doing what is good and right becomes joyous. I definitely am not great at that, but it is something I feel strongly about, and the type of person I am committed to become.
This gospel is true!
Hurrah for Israel!
-- 

Elder Sabey

Thursday, August 25, 2016

08222016 Gimpo is Big


Hello!

This week has been interesting. We had to get my last area all ready for the new Elders and am adjusting to my new area. Gimpo is really big. We can still be in our area after taking a bus for a couple hours. So we have a book for a map, not just a map. haha. 


Anyway, it was good being able to say goodbye to some people before leaving my last area and sharing last thoughts with them. It was good. Thus far in Gimpo we haven't had too many meetings, they have been cancelling a lot. So not too much to report on my new investigators.

One miracle though. My first day here I complimented a guy’s shoes to start a conversation. Pretty quickly he just asked me why I came to Korea. I told him a little about our purpose. He said he had seen us walking around that area a lot and always wanted to talk to us. So he asked if we had time and we went to Paris Banquette and basically taught the first lesson. He said he would be interested in coming to church and English. He came to English and said next week he would come to church. 

 The area is considered really "country" but I am still living on the 18th floor of a building. Korea is like that though. No matter where you go there are basically only apartments and the like, no houses. There just isn't enough room for many homes with yards. And this next week we get to go help a brother with some farming I guess, which I am excited for—o See how things are done in Korea. 

My district has 4 elders 4 sisters. My companion speaks mostly Korean but wants to learn English.
I really am enjoying him. He is technically an American, because he was born in Oregon but he doesn't speak English very well, since he grew up in Korea. I like my new district as well. We have 3 Koreans, and the Coloradan from my last district moved with me up here. It is amazing how quickly you can adjust to a new life/house and everything. My house has no AC, which is sad. I had trouble sleeping the first night, since I was sweating all night, but now I am sleeping well!
Sorry not too much exciting stuff this week. My spiritual thought this week comes from this morning. A recent convert here JangGyoungSue has a 10 year old son. So the last commitment for him was to pray with his family. He texted this morning and said he finally prayed with his son last night. He just said he was happy and his heart was full. I loved that. I felt like that was the image of this gospel. People coming together in righteousness, specifically families. And the lord will always give those tender feelings of love when two or three gather in his name.
I love this gospel!
Hurrah for Israel!
-- 
Elder Sabey


Sunday, August 14, 2016

08142016 Crazy Transfers

We had transfer calls this week, and like the entire mission is changing. Both me and my companion are leaving, one of the sets of sisters in my district are also both leaving. Both of which will be white washed and training. And this happened all over the mission. The office elders too are getting white washed. I only know one companionship that I know that isn't changing. So this is going to be a big change. And next maybe two transfers we get like 40 new missionaries. So transfers are going to be fun for the next little while. I am going to GimPo with Elder Kim Jean Suk. That is where my second companion served for a long time and loved. So I am excited. I think there is an island in my area where we can see north Korea so that should be exciting! So we have already started but will have to do a lot more of just writing down everything the new elders need to know about the area.
We are leaving this area with quite a few investigators. So it feels good to leave it better than we found it. It will be interesting to see what happens with a new set of missionaries.
This week was a good week. We were able to meet with a referral for the first time and he is awesome. I also met with No Da Bean again, the guy who got baptized in my first area. I went on exchanges with our zone leaders, and taught some good lessons.
I gave like a goodbye talk thing they always have missionaries do, and one of the members really liked it. It was short and to the point. It was my last suggestions (specifically for the church in Korea.) That felt good honestly. He talked after me and referred to what I said a lot.
So all in all it was a good week. I gave my "last lecture" to my district. I really enjoyed that. I talked about how our ultimate goal is to become one with God. So then I talked about how the best way to do that is by becoming one in righteousness with others. Ultimately with spouse and children, but right now with companions and investigators. And ended with my two suggestions: always accept the need for rules and obedience, and never value being right over a relationship. So ultimately just be humble. As I thought about what I wanted to say in my last lecture, I felt strongly about those things. Those are thoughts that feel true and powerful to me. And once again, I thought of how my parents and siblings have impacted my thoughts so much. Again thank you :)
Another fun things this week is I read the Sermon and the Mount and the same thing in the Book of Mormon and just compared the few differences. Super interesting. The Book of Mormon is true. Again I felt that as I read and compared with the Sermon on the Mount.
I am excited to see what lies ahead!
Hurrah for Israel!
--
Elder Sabey



Mom asked about how we get around:  We normally walk. But if we are far away we take the subway, or mid-distance bus. Anyway, the transportation is amazing in Korea, but we just try to save money and walk places. 
My district is great. But everybody is changing... Elder Perry is my comp. Elder Peterson is from Colorado, and will be in my district again next transfer. Elder Kim June is the Pianist who played Piano like a bunch everyday. Sister Hintze is awesome, from Idaho and goes home this week. She is super nice, and likes racquetball. Sister Djano is from the Philippines, she is super energetic and fun. I really appreciate her. Sister Tuaputa is from New Zealand/Australia and is like Islander. She is also fun and probably the most emotionally up and down in the district. Sister Whipple is from Moab. She works hard and is also super fun. So yeah there is the real quick summary.

Tuesday, August 9, 2016

08092016 Two Weeks of letters in one post--Time is flying, Leading by Repentance and God's timing and purpose

Wow, Landon is home, I am on year 2, and my companion is at 6 months...almost. 
This week we had interviews with president. I always feel like they are too short. They are 20 minutes, but it was still really good. He got to know us a little, asked about the language and how we are doing and everything. No amazing insights. But I did really enjoy getting to know him and his wife just a little bit more. This week a fair amount of appointments cancelled and two people didn't come to church that said they would, so that was too bad. I also had two exchanges this week. Both with fellow Coloradans. :) They were both super fun. 

Two referral miracles. After we had a good district meeting, the sisters got a call from some member in another mission who had a couple that wants to learn about our church. So we were all listening and they got an awesome couple to teach. Then on Sunday after 3 of our investigators didn't come to church, a random guy sat next to us. His friend brought him and told us that he wants to learn about the church. So we took him to gospel principles and got his phone number and will hopefully meet him sometime this week.

Our mission gets like 35 or something new missionaries in the next 3 transfers, so like most of the mission will be training. So my companion is freaking out that he might have to train in the next few transfers. Haha. He will do great.

We have been sweating a lot. It is humid and so just walking for a couple of minutes you get pretty darn sweaty. I don't mind it too much, but my companion does not like it at all! Good thing we are in one of the houses with air conditioning.

My spiritual thoughts from this week. First is inspired by what Dad said, which inspired my district meeting. Dad said something like the best way to build Zion is to lead in repentance. I have thought about the leaders I have appreciated in life, and the one's I haven't. I think of the soccer captains that tend to be chosen. They are the loud, yelling, criticizing type. Or of people that if they are "higher" than others they feel like they need to expound there knowledge, because they were chosen for a reason. But then I think of the leaders that have impacted me for good. Those who admit fault, who don't judge, who often are soft spoken and just kind. I think those people lead in repentance. And through them, not those who yell, etc. I find a desire to repent, to improve, and change. As always Christ is perfect at that as well.
Lastly, the biggest promise in the Abrahamic covenant seems to me that his posterity would bless the whole earth. I love that as a promised blessing. It seems kind of funny. If you keep this promise, you will receive not service from others, but the ability to serve others. I guess my thought is that this gospel naturally leads to loving others. Thus that truly is a blessing. Hopefully that all makes sense. 
One last miracle. Just barely a random guy while we were emailing came and asked where our church is, and when we worship is and stuff,  just cool things like that are always fun to see!

-- 
Elder Sabey
Hello everybody!
It was a very warm week. In fact, so warm our mission president asked us to stay indoors on one day until after dinner. Also because it is summer vacation and everything almost all of our investigators could not meet! We had a zone training this week. Basically reinstated rules from president to president, talked about effective proselyting, and some about meeting investigators’ needs. It was a good day, I appreciated all of their thoughts!

Yesterday we had another companionship move into our house. One of them had a breathing problem and the heat doesn't help so they wanted him in an area with air conditioning and close to the hospital we normally use. So he and Elder Yates (my best friend from Pyeong Tech) moved in, maybe just for a week until the transfer ends. 

On Sunday we had the one referral come again to church and got a time when we could meet with him again. Plus a kid from our English class came to church kind of randomly and stayed for the whole thing. So we are going to try to set up an appointment with him this week as well.
Han Jee Sung was busy this week, so was Adam, so was Han Gyu Ook, so was Bak Jeh Uhn. So that was rough, but we met with Bak Hyun Oo the little kid. He now is very willing to get baptized and has a much better attitude about meeting with us and stuff. I really enjoyed it last time. His goal is to get baptized on the 28th!

Mom asked about eating out. We generally try to eat in once and eat out once. Although if people feed us or stuff we will normally eat out twice.

My spiritual thought this week is just a simple idea. Sometimes I, like most humans, question why God's hand seems to come slowly, or not at all, or not in the way we want it to, etc. I guess I have felt this week a gentle assurance that God's purpose isn't to fix my problems. He wants us to work through problems ourselves to learn and grow. But I have also felt this week that he is with me. Like Uncle Bob would often say. God normally does not calm the storm but calms the sailor in the storm. Because through working through our own storm we experience the opposition that allows for true growth and happiness.  So for that opportunity I am eternally grateful!
Hurrah for Israel!
Love,
Elder Sabey